Maid of honor dresses are special because next to the bride,
the maid of honor attracts everyone’s attention at the wedding just for the
thought that she is the most eligible single lady in waiting at this special
occasion. She is at the top of the list for the “next in line” in marriage and
all the single men present in this occasion will give her attention at one
point or another whether they are prospecting for marriage or not. Her role is
really beyond ordinary. She is after all the second most glamorous woman at the
wedding.
So what is the role of the maid of honor? It could be a
mountain of tasks. There are many stories about the things that the maid of
honor are expected to do for the wedding and they are fetching if you follow
traditions. It’s not surprising that some women find the role of the maid of
honor dreadful. These things caused some conflict between sisters or between
best friends in the past. The maid of honor had been portrayed with a downbeat
part in the wedding entourage in recent years. Many Hollywood movies seem to
portray them a bit negatively. And most recently, many reality shows on TV also
portray how stressful the role of the maid of honor can get because of a bride
in a fit of frenzy. No wonder there are some women out there run away from
their soon-to-be-married sister or best friend as soon as they get a hint to be
asked as the maid of honor.
So here is a different perspective about the maid of honor’s
role: come pretty and just be there looking lovely! But well, this is actually
what happens in most cases with the help of fantastic wedding planners and
coordinators nowadays. In reality, the maid of honor just comes to the wedding
and sits there with the role of “being pretty”. It is true! Of course, not all
weddings go according to plan. But let the wedding planner and coordinator take
care of the stressful things and everything in it. Just sit there with the
bride and help her look pretty. That is the role of the maid of honor and the
best part of being lovely is wearing the right dress. The actual pressure of
being the maid of honor is actually not on her role for the wedding. It is on
her dress! The maid of honor is actually just there at the wedding with her
elegant moves as she holds the bouquet for the bride during the exchange of
vows. Or make fashionable strides as she arrange a bit of the bride’s train
during the photo shoot. Or when the bride gets emotional and looks to you for
sympathy, the maid of honor sends a very sweet smile as she moves her lips
assuming the bride can read them and say with very soft voice “you did it” to
give comfort with all her sincerity. So the maid of honor needs to be in her best
and in a very special dress.
The choices for the maid of honor dresses can be a vast
selection of different styles that you could drown in it without even noticing.
So you need to keep a simple mind and go for something that can easily be
slipped on. Just make a good impression with the dress but not too good so that
you won’t step over the pride of the bride to whom everyone should give their
attention. Some designs will strike you as classy or sophisticated and these
styles are popular choices because they are impressive with just the right
amount of elegance fit for the occasion. If the wedding is a small ceremony
with just a few private attendees then these styles can be your best choice. If
the wedding will be packed with some important guests like big bosses or the
family patriarchs or matriarchs, which usually happens with big families from
both sides of the groom and the bride, you will need a little bit of a punchy
dress that will stand out from a crowd but still compliment the bridal gown.
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